Do you feel alone?
Does your divorce conflict keep you awake at night?
Do you experience concern or unease whenever your ex's name appears in a text, email, or during in-person encounters?
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A high-conflict divorce specialist is committed to offering specialized assistance to individuals grappling with divorces marked by elevated levels of conflict with their spouses. In these intricate situations, characterized by intense disagreements, disputes, and emotional intricacies, the expertise of a high-conflict divorce specialist proves invaluable. This is particularly true when facing the challenges of an unpredictable and contentious partner, as the specialist brings a nuanced understanding and strategic guidance to navigate through the complexities of such divorces.
The perpetrator controls your time & movement
Emotional & psychological abuse against the victim and their loved ones (including pets)
Manipulation of the victim, including throughout a period of strategic "niceness."
Sexual coerciveness, rape, paranoia about infidelity
Isolation from sources of support, including family, friends, communities and professionals
Monitoring, harassment and stalking (including via technology)
Manipulating others (including children) to upset, marginalize and disempower the victim
using and manipulating legal processes and institutions/systems to threaten, harm, impoverish or discredit the victim
Intimidation and threats against the victim, their loved ones (including pets) and their property
Gaslighting
Accusing, belittling, bullying, criticizing, demanding
Projecting - never taking responsibility, always blaming someone else
Lack of empathy
Grandiosity
Emotional blackmail
Love bombing
Including preventing the victim from having access to money or assets, refusing to contribute to bills, creating debt for which victims are liable, and taking them to court vexatiously, so legal proceedings drain their cash and assets.
Unclear or in-consistent communication
Lack of cooperation
emotional instability
scheduling conflict
parental alienation, parental blame
Step-partners
Won't follow the parent plan
Fear, confusion, self-doubt.
self-blame, low self-esteem,
trauma, C-PTSD,
depression, anxiety, illness,
deprivation,
the feeling of always.
"walking on eggshells",
trying to please the perpetrator.
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Kate M
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Disclaimer: As a certified high-conflict divorce specialist, my mission is to educate healthy, protective co-parents who are experiencing post-separation abuse about its patterns of behaviours to help them respond with strength, knowledge and strategy in contested custody cases and co-parenting situations. While many factors, social circumstances and mental conditions contribute to patterns of abuse, survivors find the patterns of cruelty and control characteristic of Cluster B personality disorders, such as narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), borderline personality disorder (BPD) and antisocial personality disorder, especially relatable. I have professional and lived experiences with domestic violence and post-separation abuse, but I am not qualified to give legal advice or make diagnoses. While I am guided by the belief that children's rights to emotional and physical well-being should trump individual parental rights regardless of gender, studies show that domestic violence is a gendered crime.
IMPORTANT: If you feel that your financials or communication could be subpoenaed, please consider having a friend or family member book the appointment. You may book the appointment under an alias for additional precautions to protect your privacy.
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