Divorce Conflict Solutions — Everything your lawyer and your therapist won't tell you
Divorce & Custody Coaching · Calgary + Virtual

A steady, guiding hand through your divorce.

It's complicated, overwhelming, and expensive. A coach walks you through it step by step — so you always know what to do next, and save thousands in legal fees by not running to your lawyer every time something happens.

Everything your lawyer and your therapist won't tell you.

Step by stepYou'll always know exactly what to do next
Save thousandsLess time — and money — in your lawyer's inbox
Since 2023Guiding families through divorce & custody
Lisa James — Divorce Conflict Solutions
The gap I fill

There's a hole between your therapist and your lawyer. I'm the bridge.

Two professionals are supposed to get you through this. Neither one does the thing you actually need most — a plan.

Your therapist

Asks how you feel

Vital work — but when your ex sends a threatening email, "how does that make you feel?" isn't a next step. It's a room with no door.

Lisa — your coach

Tells you what to do

"Time out. Let's look at the facts. Here's exactly what to send, what to save, and what it means for your case." Strategy, evidence, and a steadier you.

Your lawyer

Bills by the hour

They fight the legal battle — then move to the next file. They won't prep you for the room, calm your panic, or keep your costs down. That's on you. Or on us.

What we do together

Five ways I get you through it

Not more talking. A working partnership that turns the worst season of your life into something you can actually manage.

1

Build your evidence

Timelines, documentation, and affidavit-ready records — so when it matters, you're the organized one in the room.

2

Coach your communication

What to send, what to ignore, and how to answer the message that just made your heart pound — without torching your case.

3

Steady your nervous system

When you're in fight-or-flight you can't think straight. I help you slow down, breathe, and make decisions you won't regret.

4

Keep your legal fees down

Organized clients bill fewer lawyer hours. I also help you find the right lawyer — not the most expensive one.

5

Prepare you for the room

Mediation and court prep: what they'll ask, how to counter, when to take a break — and how to walk in looking like someone to take seriously.

Not therapy. Not legal advice.

Coaching that makes both of them work better — and makes you the calmest, best-prepared person at the table.

Who I work with

High conflict is where I cut my teeth. It's not the only door.

If your split has turned into a war, you're exactly who I've spent years helping — the hardest cases, the ones that keep you up at night. But you don't need a nightmare ex to need me.

If you're facing custody, heading into mediation, or sitting across from a lawyer you don't fully understand, you're in the right place. Whether it's a battle or just overwhelming, you don't have to walk it alone.

How it works

Three steps, at your pace

Step 01

A 30-minute call

Free. We see if I'm the right fit, and you get a feel for how I work — no pressure, no pitch.

Step 02

Your first session

A focused working session where we map your situation, calm the immediate fire, and build your first plan.

Step 03

Ongoing support

Support packages for the length of your matter — regular calls and messaging access with clear response windows.

You're not doing anything wrong. Let's look at the facts — and build the case while we're at it.
— How a session with Lisa actually feels

You don't have to figure this out alone.

One conversation can change how the rest of this goes. Let's start with thirty minutes.

Book your 30-minute call
Divorce Conflict Solutions

The bridge between your therapist and your lawyer. Divorce & custody coaching with Lisa James — Calgary & virtual, worldwide.

Get in touch

Book a 30-minute call [email protected] [ new phone number ] Mon–Fri · Mountain Time
© 2026 Divorce Conflict Solutions Coaching services only. Lisa James is a divorce & custody coach — not a lawyer or a therapist — and does not provide legal advice, therapy, or representation.