Do you feel alone?

Does your divorce conflict keep you awake at night?

Do you experience concern or unease whenever your ex's name appears in a text, email, or during in-person encounters?

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DO YOU NEED A DIVORCE SPECIALIST?

PRE Separation Abuse

The abuser controls your time and movement, using emotional and psychological abuse to isolate you from loved ones—including pets. They may manipulate you throughout, deploying tactics like forced dependence, sexual coercion, paranoia, and even isolation from support systems, including family and friends. This often leads to feelings of helplessness and entrapment during a period of strategic "niceness."

Post Seperation Abuse

Even after separation, the abuse may continue through harassment, stalking (often with the aid of technology), and manipulation. Abusers can use children or legal systems to disempower and marginalize the victim. They may resort to threats, intimidation, and continued monitoring to control the victim and their loved ones, including pets and property.

Narcissistic Abuse

Narcissistic abusers rely on tactics like gaslighting, belittling, and relentless criticism. They never accept responsibility, instead projecting their faults onto others. This abuse is characterized by a lack of empathy, an inflated sense of self-importance, and manipulative behaviors such as emotional blackmail and love bombing.

Economic Abuse

Including preventing the victim from having access to money or assets, refusing to contribute to bills, creating debt for which victims are liable, and taking them to court vexatiously, so legal proceedings drain their cash and assets.

Co-Parenting Struggles

Unclear or in-consistent communication Lack of cooperation, emotional instability, scheduling conflict, parental alienation, parental blame, Step-partners Won't follow the parent plan

Truama

Fear, confusion, self-doubt, self-blame, low self-esteem, trauma, C-PTSD, depression, anxiety, illness, deprivation, the feeling of always. "walking on eggshells", trying to please the perpetrator.

SOUND FAMILIAR?

You are fearful of the future and struggle to think clearly

You have no idea what you are doing and no idea where to start.

You are so tired of the conflict that never ends.

You struggle to make a decision and are emotionally driven.

You worry about your children's future. Communication with your ex is an issue and the parenting.

WHAT IS A HIGH-CONFLICT DIVORCE & CUSTODY SPECIALIST

A high-conflict divorce specialist is committed to offering specialized assistance to individuals grappling with divorces marked by elevated levels of conflict with their spouses. In these intricate situations, characterized by intense disagreements, disputes, and emotional intricacies, the expertise of a high-conflict divorce specialist proves invaluable. This is particularly true when facing the challenges of an unpredictable and contentious partner, as the specialist brings a nuanced understanding and strategic guidance to navigate through the complexities of such divorces.

What Does A High Conflict Divorce & Custody Specialist offer

Prepare to leave a relationship
Help individuals understand and navigate Family Court
Offer family court strategies, insider advice, tips and preparation
Court approved communication
Strategic documentation
Co-Parenting Tips
Preparation for mediation and negotiations
Safeguarding your case from claims of parental alienation, enmeshment & gatekeeping
Offer parenting strategies to help children cope
Offer strategies and tips while blending a family
Mindset, goal setting and strategy
Recognizing and dealing with post-separation abuse
Help your children manage amid the storm
Moving on and rebuilding your life

After just two sessions, I felt empowered and confident with a strategy for any future legal issues I may face with my son's father. She's an excellent listener, empathizer, and information organizer - the full package secret weapon!"

- Kate M

LEGAL DISCLAIMER

Disclaimer: As a certified high-conflict divorce specialist, my mission is to educate healthy, protective co-parents who are experiencing post-separation abuse about its patterns of behaviors to help them respond with strength, knowledge and strategy in contested custody cases and co-parenting situations. While many factors, social circumstances and mental conditions contribute to patterns of abuse, survivors find the patterns of cruelty and control characteristic of Cluster B personality disorders, such as narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), borderline personality disorder (BPD) and antisocial personality disorder, especially relatable. I have professional and lived experiences with domestic violence and post-separation abuse, but I am not qualified to give legal advice or make diagnoses. While I am guided by the belief that children's rights to emotional and physical well-being should trump individual parental rights regardless of gender, studies show that domestic violence is a gendered crime.

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