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Beyond the Breakup

Practical guidance for divorce, custody and what comes after. A new article every week, written from what I see with clients every day.

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Why You Still Feel Controlled, Even After You Leave

You left, so why does it still feel like they are pulling the strings? How coercive control outlives the relationship, and how to loosen its grip.

Co-parenting with a narcissist over the summer is not a holiday. The traps that show up every July, and how to be ready for them in advance.

Summer break with a high-conflict co-parent is rarely a break. How to plan the schedule, hold the boundaries and protect your own summer.

Ten phrases that end an argument with a high-conflict co-parent instead of feeding it, and why short and boring beats clever every time.

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